“I know a lady who used to be full of smiles, spunk and energy. She had hopes, dreams, and ambitions. She was educated and family oriented, and her goals were within reach…..

I know a lady who was swept off her feet, became a wife, mother and her dreams changed. Though living in abundance, beautiful children, home, and lifestyle, when I looked in her eyes I saw hope suffocated by fear, with a color of royalty too often worn on her skin in mockery and all dreams vanishing….


I know a lady who lost her confidence, pride and balance. Clasping tightly to a shred of dignity left, she escaped the Hell enclosing her and continued into the Hell of public display. Struggling each day to have freedom and find peace, she kept her head up and kept walking…..


I know a lady who no longer fears closing her eyes at night. She left so much, but now has pride in what she has. Dreams and goals are on her daily list again. With smiles and new found energy she is driven to prove to herself she is worthy and capable. With echoes of harsh words still ringing in her ears, she is dedicated to finding her old self again….."

(continuing)




My goal this month is to bring awareness to a topic in society that most find undesirable to discuss. Through awareness, we find ways to help those among us to seek help in what seems hopeless situations. As a friend, parent, family member, neighbor, or even a by-stander, we cannot provide the best help for someone in a domestic abuse situation. Help, strength, and knowledge needs to come from our shelters, and organizations designed strictly to help those in domestic violent relationships. Employees and directors have been trained to assist and offer by far the best help.

Purple, or violet is the color associated with Domestic Violence. Loving color as I do, and all the meanings and significance of color, I find myself drawn to another hue to bless those who have escaped their Hell. Red, a powerful, dominant color seems a good fit. Strength is needed to continue the walk away process. Power is needed to continue the battle. Love is needed within the soul because more often than not, these victims have lost their heart, self-esteem and love for themselves.

My design for today is an incredibly soft, draping, silk camisole. A touch of softness to be worn at the heart….perhaps barely peeking out of a sweater, or jacket, but a bit of indulgence for a lady who has carried more than her share on her shoulders for too long.
I chose a shade of red that reflects a gemstone, the Ruby.

The ruby is considered to be the most powerful gem in the universe. This stone represents or symbolizes contentment, peace, protection, friendship and /or love, vitality and royalty.
The Ruby is filled with love. It is said that persons lacking in self-love should have and mediate on the Ruby. The color of rubies varies from vermilion to red. The most desired color is "pigeon's blood", which is pure red with a hint of blue. The best rubies and star rubies are bright red. Today’s design is so delicate, feminine, even a bit sexy….but powerful.


Rubies…..$70


Please continue the support and awareness of Domestic Violence. The story will continue throughout the month along with many new items.
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